Happy new year loves! How have you been? How is January going for you? Your girl just took a break for a bit from the net ( well, apart from Instagram, lol) but i’m back with lots of things to share with you guys. So what has been up with me of late?

First of all this millennial problems have eventually caught up with me. Panic attacks! OMG they are real . I have been getting a lot of anxiety of late. I think it’s because i’m so big on overthinking, or pressure to achieve my goals, i don’t know. There’s school, work, social life, responsibilities everywhere i turn. Well, its part of adulting but man it’s catching up super fast on me . Argghh look at me overthinking again. I definitely i needed a break! or do i need more of it? Mmh, we’ll see.

Secondly, my most precious angel , my baby sister Alisa, fell sick. Seeing her in pain and not being able to do anything to help her was one of the most hurtful things i have been through. If you have a younger sibling or a niece/ nephew you get what i’m saying . This whole incident reminded me how important family is. Sometimes we tend to prioritise other things and forget our loved ones. Once in a while take a break, go on leave, give your folks a call, go for family dinners, or just enjoy a nice home cooked meal together, get to reconnect with them. Trust me it’s the best feeling ever.

I realised that at times it’s okay to just sit and stare blankly and not think of anything. You are a priority my dear. You cannot take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself first, never forget that.

Loves, slow down and enjoy the beauty of life, live, breathe, and learn . Take a look around you whenever you have time and never forget everything and every person that has even the least place within your heart.

When you are going through something, always remember that you are not the only one going through it. Others are probably handling a lot than you are. And always remember, God will always, always come through in His own time. And most importantly BREATHE. I pray that January and this whole year at large brings you nothing but peace and happiness😘.